Contrary to popular belief, a lot of women enjoy adult entertainment too. Unlike most men though, they may opt for the ones with a `romantic storyline’. You see, if men are easily turned on by two people in bed, some women may find this crass or insensitive and be turned off by it. However, if the adult scenes are part of a romantic storyline, then women are more likely to stick around and watch it with you!

How to Plan for and Set `Erotica Night’

First of all, talk to your partner. Really, if you just pop an adult DVD and she all of a sudden sees two people roughly going at it, she will not be turned on and may in fact even be mad at you!

Getting her involved…
Prevent this situation by discussing things first. Tonight in bed, tell her that you REALLY want to watch some adult movies with her and that you think this will be great for your sexual relationship. Tell her you want to discuss it to be sure SHE is ok with it.

If you have kids, tell her too that you’re discussing this with her because you want to be responsible about this adult viewing. In short, you want to schedule it at a time when the kids will not be at home or even watch it in a place or room where the kids don’t just stumble in.

Lastly, tell her that you want to know more how to please her in bed and that you think watching these adult movies together is one way of knowing how to do this.

If you discuss this topic with her openly, seriously and responsibly, then chances are she’ll easily see the light and agree to an `erotica night’.

Selecting adult-rated movies…
After she agrees to watch an adult movie with you, the next thing to tackle is to select the right movie. Again, make her part of this step. Go to the DVD rental shop together or look up some erotica reviews online first. As this is your first time to watch erotica together, this first movie can be a deal breaker for you so do spend ample time on selecting the right one.

To be on the safe side, rent or purchase about three adult movies. This ensures that you have a backup just in case one is not good or too strong for your tastes. It also ensures that you guys are not left hanging if one is `too light’ for your tastes.

After choosing the movies, schedule your adult viewing and make sure that the kids are taken care of, that you have nice bottle of wine, some edibles, lighted candles… in short, make sure the ambiance is all taken care of too.

When it comes to the actual viewing, just enjoy being together! It’s almost impossible not to be sexually stimulated from watching an adult-rated movie so be prepared for this event too! And since we don’t want routine here, be ready to just make love on the sofa, on the floor or even on the living room coffee table! This is all part of the experience so just enjoy it!

Moving on and increasing the heat factor…
After this night of watching adult movies, you guys may want more so feel free to discuss the next `full showing’. As you get more comfortable, you can increase the level of `adultness’ you want to see. Don’t be afraid to explore your sexual fantasies or even traditionally taboo topics such as bonding, domination, and others.

Another tip is to introduce sex games while watching adult movies. For instance, you can start to imitate whatever is being shown on the movie WHILE it’s being played, and to stop too when it stops (whether you want to or not). Another sex game is to try to remember all that you’ve just seen and to re-create it the following night.

Just a word of caution…
Remember that adult movies are only meant to encourage you or spice up your sexual relationship. It should never be a replacement to other types of foreplay or that you guys get so carried away that you find yourselves unable to make love without watching adult movies first. It’s easy to get hooked so keep this in mind!

About the author of this article:

gabrielle moore is the co-author of the g spot code. it teaches men how to please women with g spot orgasms every time. for more information, go to: http://www.thegspotcode.com