You’re probably thinking, “I want my ex girlfriend back” after that painful breakup. Just when you think you’ve found the love of your life, she leaves you. You can’t quite put your finger on it. The point of the matter is, your partner is gone and you feel hollow inside. Not to kick you while you’re down, but here are some of the things that you need to avoid if you seriously want to get back with your ex.

Tip #1: Don’t play the emotional blackmail card
Your ex will see through that. You can’t act like your life is over and you’re so depressed, you can’t do anything else. This will put your ex off even more, and perhaps make her glad that she left before you got needier. The truth is groveling is never pretty. Often, it induces a feeling of disgust from the person having to witness it. This is also self-destructive. Her friends, seeing how poorly you’re holding up, will tell her that he or she is better off. Your ex will believe them, too.

Tip #2: Do look like you’re doing really well
Instead of looking sad, start taking a more proactive approach in life. Go out of your way to look good. If it means going on a diet or joining a gym, do it. Once you’re pretty sure you’re looking nice and lean, pass by a place where you know her friends will be under the pretext that you’re doing something. It could be a café near the mall, or the bookstore. Be pleasant but look like you’re in a hurry to get somewhere. That brief viewing of a better looking you can go a long way, especially when your ex’s friends tell him or her about it.

Tip #3: Don’t get too soppy
Telling your ex that you love her frequently can reap adverse results, making you seem creepy and needy. If you carry on this “I love you so much” tangent, your ex will find you so suffocating, she won’t even want to be anywhere near you.

Tip #4: Do keep things casual
Keep things light. Be nice. Treat your ex like you would, say, an acquaintance. Don’t betray any kind of emotion. You can even act blasé about it.

Tip #5: Don’t beg your ex to come back with the promise it will be better
Doing that is not only pathetic, but it will make your ex think that you are accepting that the break-up was your fault. Whether or not it was your fault is irrelevant. What matters is, you make it a point not to seem too interested in her.

Tip #6: Do look like you’re too busy
Don’t talk about the past. Just maintain a positive aura. This will have your ex wondering what you’ve been up to, and whether the break up was actually her fault after all. The fact that you seem better off would make your ex wonder. And, like the apple in the Garden of Eden, your ex will want you back.

Let the games begin!

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